Sunday, June 17, 2018

Assignment B #1


The High School I work in is an inner city school right here in Providence.  Our population of students is very diverse, and many proudly support the black lives matter movement. 
We have one faculty member however, that is notorious for screaming back at students “all lives matter” whenever they hear them talking about BLM.  I, myself, have heard this individual do this but I have become part of the problem because I haven’t named what they are doing as a problem.  In thinking about this, I never spoke with them about what they were saying because I didn’t know how to explain what was wrong with it; while I knew how to pull this individual aside and have a difficult conversation, I did not know how to explain that what they were saying was wrong in a way they would understand.  Now that I have read this article, the next time I hear them say “all lives matter” to one of our students, I will start by pulling them aside and having them quickly read this.  This article does a great job at associating the BLM saying with something that is applicable and relatable to almost anyone. Specifically, using food to tell the story is powerful because it is a necessity to everyone; we all understand what is meant by a "fair share" and most of us have said "I should get my fair share, too." I will be sure to keep you all posted in this coming week if this comes up and I am able to better equip this individual with a more complete understanding of the movement. 
Until I was in 9th grade, I went to really white schools.  Race, and all of the implications it has, did not have any meaning in my life or in the lives of anyone that I went to school with or that taught me.  When I was around people of color, if someone were to ask me if I was “colorblind” I would absolutely have said yes; in fact, I likely would have said yes until I graduated from high school. 


Now, this was not because I was trying to be offensive or rude or inconsiderate – no!  At that time, I thought by saying I was colorblind meant that I wasn’t racist.  Essentially, that I was not looking at people of color and treating them negatively because of their skin color.  After lots of DEI training in college and through Teach for America, I learned just how awful saying that you are “colorblind” is.  What it boils down to is that you are telling people of color that you don’t see them or what they have gone through or the struggle they endure every single day.  I really like how this article talks about “color insight – an antidote to colorblindness.”  Every white person needs to confront what they think about race, what their understanding of privilege is, and have an open mind to gain a better appreciation for what people of color go through on the daily.  This article does a great job at explaining what the initial steps are individuals can take to start doing this, and is something that should be used in DEI trainings.

4 comments:

  1. The image you posted within your blog is a powerful one! I have often said that I do not see color when I am interacting with people of color. After reading this article, I realize how this statement would give a person of color the impression that he or she is not seen. Colorblindness, as I understand it at this time, is so opposite of what I want to portray to people of color. You mentioned that, by not responding to a particular colleague, when comment was made all lives matter when the BLM subject arose, that you became part of the problem. Seeing the image that you posted, "I don't see color..." hit me like a ton of bricks. I have made this statement and now realize how hurtful it must be to hear. While I can never know how a person of color truly feels when this statement is made, I would never want to be the cause of someone feeling that they are not seen; that they are not validated. Thank you for sharing your insight on how we are part of the problem and how to be a part of the solution.

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  2. I think your personal experiences resonated with me. I introduced my blog post by discussing the term "colorblind casting" in film and how I thought that was such a great idea. In actuality it's troubling that such a concept exists. I too felt like I was colorblind but understand how wrong that is. The articles really solidify that. Moreover, I think a lot of people can relate to your experience of being in a position of wanting to speak out but staying silent. Though I don't have specific examples, I know I've been in positions where I've just stayed silent to avoid the awkward or difficult interactions. That isn't the same as your reasoning but it resonated regardless.

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  3. I really appreciated your reflection on the BLM movement. I think it's important to acknowledge that the movement is reactionary to police brutality against black individuals. 'Black lives matter' is reactionary to police brutality and unjust violence towards black citizens. We need to value the life of someone who is black just as much as someone who is white. We have to say specifically that 'black lives matter,' because the emphasis is on valuing the lives of black Americans. By saying 'all lives matter,' we are silencing a movement and social group that has historically been silenced and oppressed.

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  4. A powerful story that clearly resonates with your peers. Thanks for being vulnerable and using this space as a way to teach us all about what the real world implications are. Now, say more about the texts themselves... what tools to Armstrong and Wildman offer to help ground action? Be specific in explaining their position.

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